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THE MIRRORING METHOD

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ABUNDANCE Abundance can be a huge problem. Most men hate it when women are too sticky. They say they need space to breath and when you become too available, they might lose interest.  However, some few men love it when a girl is always checking on them because they believe that means she loves him. SCARCITY Scarcity too can be a problem because most men are looking for hookups and if you become too unavailable and distant, you will end up being just another weekly scheduled sex guarantee. However, most men will only feel that they really are into you if you aren't around, and they will want to be with you when they think you won't. Ego is easier to manipulate. THE MIRRORING METHOD The question of whether you should be always available or never available is a waste of time and it should stop. There is a method that always works, in all situations of life and it is THE MIRRORING METHOD. The mirroring method will prev...

HOW TO KNOW WHAT IS HOLDING YOU BACK

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Are you into nice guys or bad boys? You probably don't know yet. If you want a hookup, deal with it as a hookup, however, if you want him to want a serious relationship or even for him to marry you, show him that you don't do hookups. And also, avoid going to his house on your first date. That should be common sense guys. If a man asks you to his house on the first day should raise red flags. You will be a lamb happily going to the slaughterhouse. I have written how to get a man you already have to take you seriously and commit. I know however that the problem of most women isn't getting the man she already has to commit, the problem is that she doesn't even have a man to start with, mostly because the men you want don't want you and the men you don't, do! So, let's make one of those lists of ours to solve your problem. First I want you to make a list of all the guys you want but they don't want you. Secondly, a list ...

THE WOMAN EVERY MAN WANTS TO MARRY

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Men are different, you know that. I know you like to say we are all the same but... OK, you win, we are rather predictable when I think about it. These are the things that drive most men crazy about a girl. Let's start: SHE'S LOYAL AND FAITHFUL Nothing says Marriage Material than loyalty and faithfulness. Nowadays, men don't trust women anymore. I once overheard a chat between two senior men in the bus where one said that today, a man can marry a girl, give her everything but she'll still cheat on him because it's Tuesday. Of course things aren't like that but today's men haven't been proven otherwise. Today, women have detached themselves from the so-called primitive patriarchal conservative ideologies. Women can date more than one guy and society won't call her a prostitute anymore. After all, men have been doing this for millions of years, right? Well, reality isn't like that. Unfortunately for women, as long as we live...

THE 3 TYPES OF MEN

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A. Those who approach no one for fear of rejection or because they're shy around women they like (most men aren't shy around women they don't like). You are losing great men because they like you a lot and they keep looking for the right way to approach you. They'll look at you with love but will look away as soon as you look them back with that bored slash sexy face of yours. They love you so much their fear of messing things up even before it starts makes them not to take any steps. To be approached by these men, if you so choose to, you should become friendlier, smile more, talk to people more, have more friends so they can use your common friends to get to you. These can end up being better men than all those of the 3rd category. B. Those who only approach the women they like These are the majority of men but what happens is that they rarely approach any woman. They usually have good days when their confidence builds up and they get the courage...

IMPORTANT SELF-EVALUATION QUESTIONNAIRE

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Before you read this book, you have to answer to this three questions.  Sometimes we think we want something when actually, we need something else entirely. DO I REALLY WANT TO ENTER A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP? WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?  Being in a serious relationship means being loyal, selfless, giving unconditional love, help him grow in his career and evolve as a person, being supportive, not caring about his money but instead with him, being there when he needs you, not flirting with his friends (NEVER), building blind trust by being consistently faithful to him (And I'll teach you how to do it). AM I REALLY READY FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP?  If you think you are too young to give your freedom away to a guy then no, you shouldn't. If you do, you'll get to your 30s and you'll think he took your 20s away from you and then you'll start behaving like a 16 year old. There's too much of that out there. My book won't endorse that. This is true ...

WHY DO I ALWAYS FALL FOR THE BAD GUYS?

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HOW ARE THEY? They are bold , they are majestic , they are confident , they make you feel like a woman, they rock your world in and out the bed, they challenge you, they are unpredictable , they're adventurous , they're passionate , they're exciting , they bring chaos and then order (a roller coaster of emotions). They also cheat , are emotionally distant, unattainable , and only care about you when they're with you (meaning they are like this with all women).  You have to squeeze into their busy schedule which makes being with them a privilege, they told you they have a girlfriend yet you keep waiting for them, you can't cheat a cheater (ohh, poor girl).  Overall, you are stuck in a bad guy vicious circle and I will teach you how to get out forever. Women love bad guys because, as a female friend once put it, the most attractive caveman was the strongest and manly and able to protect his family if danger arose, not the most emotionally present. ...