THE 3 TYPES OF MEN

A. Those who approach no one for fear of rejection or because they're shy around women they like (most men aren't shy around women they don't like).

You are losing great men because they like you a lot and they keep looking for the right way to approach you. They'll look at you with love but will look away as soon as you look them back with that bored slash sexy face of yours. They love you so much their fear of messing things up even before it starts makes them not to take any steps.

To be approached by these men, if you so choose to, you should become friendlier, smile more, talk to people more, have more friends so they can use your common friends to get to you. These can end up being better men than all those of the 3rd category.

B. Those who only approach the women they like

These are the majority of men but what happens is that they rarely approach any woman. They usually have good days when their confidence builds up and they get the courage to approach women. They usually don't approach women the first time they meet them. 

They regret not talking to you right away so when they find you again, they go at it, just to get it over with, most of the time not expecting a positive response but only not to stay all-day thinking about "What ifs".

To be approached by these men you should look approachable:

Find a way to stay away from your friends for a few minutes (these guys fear rejection in groups, and groups of women are the most intimidating.

If a guy looks at you and you like him, please flirt in an OBVIOUS way. No subliminal flirting here. Look at him, fake the princess shy look, steal another look and smile (remember to leave your group after this. Give him a chance for Christ sake.) 

The playing with hair, biting your lower lip thingie, most women just do this because they love attention of men, not because they're interested. Men in general, usually by experience, think that women who wear short skirts, no bra, and high heels, do this to feel sexy, also, that strangely, these women don't like being approached. 

All they want is the attention. All they want is not to pass by unnoticed and to get the attention. If you flirt, make it as obvious as you can. Only womanizers get the subliminal flirting because they have had a lot a practice and because they'd approach you anyway, regardless of whether you were flirting or not. Which brings us to...

C. Those who approach everything that moves

These guys work with probabilities and there is an underground world of the so called THE PICK-UP ARTISTS with tricks and hacks to get to a woman's pennies. Some enter this world because they are shy and want to practice in order to be ready to approach that woman who's going to make his heart pump. 

Others find sleeping with every women they want a sign of how great they are, hence boosting their egos, and there are those who do it because they think women are not worth dating and then there are those who have sex only once with each woman they conquer. These last usually don't care about women at all. 

Women aren't people for them. These usually were traumatized by women in the past and need psychiatric help. (Think Mr. Grey from 50 Shades of Grey)