WHY DO I ALWAYS FALL FOR THE BAD GUYS?

HOW ARE THEY?
They are bold, they are majestic, they are confident, they make you feel like a woman, they rock your world in and out the bed, they challenge you, they are unpredictable, they're adventurous, they're passionate, they're exciting, they bring chaos and then order (a roller coaster of emotions).

They also cheat, are emotionally distant, unattainable, and only care about you when they're with you (meaning they are like this with all women). 



You have to squeeze into their busy schedule which makes being with them a privilege, they told you they have a girlfriend yet you keep waiting for them, you can't cheat a cheater (ohh, poor girl). 

Overall, you are stuck in a bad guy vicious circle and I will teach you how to get out forever.

Women love bad guys because, as a female friend once put it, the most attractive caveman was the strongest and manly and able to protect his family if danger arose, not the most emotionally present.

They hold all the characteristics of the alpha male caveman. What you are not counting on is that caveman were not monogamous. They didn't have to be. Why prevent the other women from having such a manly man, thus bringing more manly descendants to survive the harsh life?

We are now in the 21st century yet our instincts remain unchanged.

YOU HATE A MAN WHO BRINGS TRANQUILITY TO YOUR LIFE

"Some women hate nice guys, other women just aren't attracted to them."

I know you must be saying, "This guy must be crazy" already but many women hate men who don't give then a reason to have a complicated life. No arguments, he says she's right and matter is closed or ignores her and does whatever he thinks is correct. Doesn't cheat and doesn't even appreciate other women.

They need insecurities and jealousy and ultimately that steamy "make up sex" which a rational, chilled adult doesn't leave space for. Relationships tend to get boring after a while and most women are adrenaline junkies or at minimum they need to be left on their toes once and a while. 

As I said earlier, check first if you are ready for a serious relationship.

WHERE DO YOU GO TO FIND MEN?

Certain places have a certain type of visitors so you should start reassessing where you are looking for men.

Bars and discos usually have guys who are looking for hookups.

Libraries have nerdy guys but most aren't employed.

Restaurants (Fast food or not), coffee shops and the like, have groups of guys and couples. Some guys here do have girlfriends. The same happens with women. However, you can also find men who are there on their lunch break, or are meeting male friends, or business partners, etc.

Malls are a mixed place but if you play the game right, you will win a good man.

The street is daunting and women usually don't stop when engaged in the street, they ignore men and actually find that insulting. Lately women have been exponentially more aggressive towards men approaching them bluntly. Some men even end up in jail. It's easy to agree that men shouldn't approach women on the street and that there are more appropriate places to do so when you are woman but as a man, I would like to counter argument.