HOW TO KNOW WHAT IS HOLDING YOU BACK

Are you into nice guys or bad boys? You probably don't know yet.

If you want a hookup, deal with it as a hookup, however, if you want him to want a serious relationship or even for him to marry you, show him that you don't do hookups. And also, avoid going to his house on your first date. That should be common sense guys. If a man asks you to his house on the first day should raise red flags. You will be a lamb happily going to the slaughterhouse.

I have written how to get a man you already have to take you seriously and commit. I know however that the problem of most women isn't getting the man she already has to commit, the problem is that she doesn't even have a man to start with, mostly because the men you want don't want you and the men you don't, do!

So, let's make one of those lists of ours to solve your problem.

First I want you to make a list of all the guys you want but they don't want you.

Secondly, a list of guys you don't want but they want you.

Use the Box below...

Are you done yet? Wow, that's a really long list you have there.

Can you see any patterns of your behavior, of your likes and dislikes? Do you make sense to yourself? Do you think your choices are reasonable? Have you found out why you like a certain type of men more than the other?

Why this exercise? Because some people have the problem of loving only those who show them despise while others love nice guys but then they complain of too much niceness.

Pay close attention to your table!

Check whether you are naturally drawn onto the kind of men you want or of commitment possibilities.

Check what those results have to say about your personality. It is hard to self-access ourselves so the table will give you the answers you don’t want to accept thus making it easier to change your behavior to one that takes you whenever you wish to go and gives you what you really need, not just what you think you want.

Remember that you can use this tables for anything if you need to get to the truth without any bias you might have and obviously, not being aware of them.