WHY MEN TEND TO LEAVE PERFECTLY GOOD WOMEN

Sometimes, no matter how great a woman is, certain men will leave them anyway. Here's why...

HE KNOWS SHE'S AMAZING BUT HE THINKS HE'S TOO YOUNG TO COMMIT

Committing comes with responsibility and the older a man becomes, more likely he is to commit. I only hope he tells you right away he's not into commitments because some men need time to assess their life choices.

HE LIKES HER SO MUCH HE IS AFRAID HOW THIS CAN AFFECT HIS REACTIONS

If you never loved someone before, it can be daunting. You love this person so much that you can't hold yourself. You don't trust yourself when it's about her. What if you get over-jealous, over-controlling, or even start being abusive? A rational man when he can't reason with certain things, he does not trust them and if he can't trust himself then how can he know the difference between what's wrong and what's right?

YOUR RUSHED PLANS FOR THE FUTURE SCARE HIM

He might like you and even consider a long time relationship but he is not thinking of buying a house, getting married and having kids right now. He is the type of guy who maybe does not believe in marriage anymore (there are lots of those out there), he wants to get to know you better, go through all the different phases of a relationship, assessing you, make sure your plans for the future align. When he sees that you are too eager to be somebody's wife, he starts thinking that maybe he's wasting your time, maybe there's the right man for you out there, maybe it's him who isn't ready for it and ultimately, maybe it's best for the two of you to go separate ways.

SHE IS THE “YES” GIRL

Most guys like women who are submissive to them. However, being a 100% YES GIRL gets boring pretty soon.

The right submission is to be loyal, faithful, trustworthy, loving, caring, present, and altruistic when it comes to him and being able to sacrifice certain things for him but never, I repeat NEVER sacrifice your priorities for his whims. Know to say "No" when you are unable to cope with his requests.

Remember that men are people like you, and like most people, they are fallible, they are in constant learning. Just like I told you to stop saying: i won't change. If you love me you'll accept me the way i am, and ask yourself a question, here, when he asks you something, you should ask yourself the following question:

"If he asks me this same thing once every week for the rest of my life, will i be a happy person?"

If you are a really nice girl your answer is more likely to be:

"I will get used to it"

Then again, ask yourself, do you really want to get used to a cancerous habit? You better make your decisions now that you are still young and there are no strings that would make you keep telling yourself not to leave your man. I am talking about kids, how society sees divorced women, not wanting to see your kids fatherless, not wanting to go against your religious beliefs or cultural traditions, and many others.

Ask yourself this question NOW.

If you plan to marry a man, cut those really annoying habits that make you want to kill yourselves because things will only keep getting worst.

Most friends of mine, female or male, always come and complain about something their partners do which they dislike. When I ask them whether they have addressed this matter to their partners, they usually raise their shoulders or say something along the lines of "He/She Will figure it out and change".

No!!! He will not! You have got a problem, tell him! Only Charles Xavier reads minds and he's a fictional character. Normal people talk, a lot, until they get to a conclusion that tries its best to mutually please both parts. We are all walking sticks here, no one has absolute knowledge or truth, it's only through dialogue that we get to common ground. Remember that.

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