HOW TO MAKE A MAN ADDICTED TO YOU (SEXUALLY)
It is true that sex won't make a man want to take you
seriously or marry you but a man won't do either of these if there's no sex. I
have dated women with whom I had an electrifying attraction, we'd have endless
sections of sex, we'd break records just for fun, but I didn't take them
seriously, never, although they had their hopes.
But if men are so sex-centered then why then is it
that I didn't take them seriously? The answer is: She was good at sex, we were
perfect under the sheets but if sex was enough to keep a man, prostitutes would
have a long cue of men wanting to marry them.
Sometimes you get a guy who turns you on just by
kissing you in the cheek, don't ever make the mistake that most women make, not
knowing how to separate SEXUAL ATTRACTION from LOVE. As soon as they find a guy
who's a beast under the sheets and provides them with the strongest orgasms
they've ever had, they start thinking that this is the man to marry.
Remember
that this man was able to rock your world because he has had a lot of practice
and that he might be having practice right now, and that a man can have amazing
sex with 50 women consequently but will get satisfied and weak after two
sections with the same women.
Know that womanizers will be the best in bed so
never judge a man's compatibility with his ability to give you orgasms. As I
said earlier, sex is a skill and like all skills, he can learn and even better,
his learning can be tailored to suit your needs.
Now, let's go to how to please your man.
SPEED
The first thing you have to know is that all men love
it fast. I have never met a single man who masturbated slowly. All animals do
it fast. I have had friends say they can never ejaculate when they put their
girlfriends on top because women won't
do it fast enough. Only more experienced women (mostly older) tend to know
this.
You can never go too fast for a man.
However, things like tantric sex are exceptions. And
sometimes doing it slowly can be good, really good, but only if you too want a
longer section, less rushed. Just remember, to make him ejaculate, doing as
fast as you can. Get the beast inside of you to reveal itself.
ORAL
Come on ladies, I know you love oral sex. Some people
love giving it more than taking it but the majority love taking it more. Oral
sex is a must in a relationship. The playfulness of a 69 position are quite
rewarding and whenever one of you is not in the mood, a good oral sex can get
things going.
The best oral sex for men, differently from women
(because clits are 1000% more sensitive than penises) is done with the penis
deep, fast into the mouth and squeezed. Don't worry to hurt him for squeezing
too much with your mouth. If it hurts, he'll tell you. This is the best way
because of, as I said earlier, men ejaculate more when it's both fast and
squeezed.
No man will tell you this but the more mess you make, even if it
looks disgusting, the better it is for us.
What you should not to is squeeze when it's dry,
because that hurts! You know this from your clit, it's never too wet. Find that
perfect spot between deep, squeezed tight, too wet and try to use your tongue.
The most sensitive parts of a men's penis are the head
and the perineum. Be gently with those. Not very far behind come the testicles.
Learn to play with them.
THE ART OF MOANING
I have heard so many times from so many female friends
"I am not a faker". I get it, you are a really truthful person.
Congratulations. Good for you.
I would advise not to fake moaning during sex only if
most women could naturally moan, which is not the case. There are women who
hate porn but their moan is louder than any pornstars' I've ever seen. They’re
naturals. They echo the way they are feeling at that moment. They know how to
express whatever their senses are capturing through their voices, or lack
thereof. But let's not kid here, most women keep quiet from start to finish,
not even when they cum. I can't express how bad that is.
Moaning is an art. You do it right, you'll take your
men to the skies. You do it wrong or don't do it at all, instead of a hard on,
you'll make a man depressed. Prostitutes know this, in order to make a man
orgasm hard, you should fake a moan. So yes, I am a man and I am telling you to
learn to fake a moan. I'd like to note however that I don't, in any way,
condone with women faking an orgasm.
Moaning is screaming, contorting, vibrating, squeezing
hands in her man's body, scratching with nails, biting, humming waves that are
synchronized with the sexual strokes which are all fakeable because this is the
only way a man can know whether he has hit the right corner, is in the right
speed or is well synchronized with you, because believe it or not, what real
men really want is to give you pleasure. Our masculine egos won't let us be
average. We need to excel. So please help us. All this is made to give you more
pleasure and by doing so, you'll respond more and you'll want him to get more
pleasure and he'll be a happy man.
If you can't fake a moan then I will tell you a trick
I've seen work. First of all, keep your mouth open at all times because just the
sound of you going out of breath can get us going into the right direction.
Secondly, start giving him directions. Tell him "No, don't do that! Slow
down.", "Yes, go faster and deeper" and say it with a sexy tone.
What's that? It’s speaking and letting lots of air come out of your mouth. That
shall do.
Faking an orgasm is impossible for the women
who have learned how to squirt.
But for those who have an internal orgasm then
it's possible, but I'd rather your man know he can't make you orgasm, so that
he can try harder to get you there than for him to think he can and you become an
unsatisfied women.
And for all women still incredulous about whether
women can actually orgasm, I want to tell you that they sure can and you can
too. Don't blame your man or your ex-boyfriends for not being able to take you
there because it's partially your fault. You should first believe you can
orgasm, teach your man how to do it the way you like which is why I suggest
women who have trouble having orgasms to buy a vibrator.
To teach themselves
how to get there on their own and then every single man on the planet will be
able to make you orgasm, you'll just have to teach him, or just bring your toy
(after you talk to him).
Sex doesn't start the moment you are both naked, it
starts when the two of you get in the mood and you can either prepare your room
for this, wear a sexy outfit or you can do something much better, texting or
call him early in the day something around the realms of "I am not wearing
anything underneath today. I'll be already wet for you when you get home."
Or "I will pass by your house later today, prepare your penis because I am
very hungry."
You can write basically anything. The idea is to get him
thinking of you all day, that way he doesn't get too tired and he delivers when
he gets home. No man likes to keep his women hungry. It's just not manly.
POSITIONS
Before anything, try out the most positions you can.
That's how you find out which ones are more suitable for the two of you. There
will be awkward times and times you'll be both saying "Let's never talk
about this again," but you'll find your favorites on the way and you'll
bond more, made friends by these ridiculous moments.
As I said in a previous chapter, tell him that you
have seen something called tantric sex (He'll say he knows about it), tell him
you'd like to learn with him and that's a thing that will bond you even more.
HYGIENE AND SCENT
Some people have really bed smelling and dense sweat,
and some other people do not have the minimum religious two baths a day. This
affects the taste of your vagina, orally and in intercourse. Your smell is very important. Get a deodorant. You won't control how sweaty you get but
you can always mask the scent with a perfume. I am sure you'd hate to orally
please a man who hasn't bathed after a hot day.
Whether you should shave or not is really just a
personal choice. Some prefer you shave like a pubic-less baby while others don't mind the bush as long as it's
well trimmed and maintained. Each person, different taste.
OPENNESS
There are women who are all elegant and mysterious but
end up being boring and not so mysterious in the bedroom, which bores pretty
fast.
And there are those who fuck your brains out!
There are women who are religious and conservative
that they don't think women should do anything in bed and that they should just
lay there for men to please themselves whenever they want which bores pretty
fast.
And there are those who fuck your brains out.
There are women who call themselves liberal, have read
tons of books on how to please a man, have had sex with tons of guys because
they don't believe in monogamy, they are open to every single sex idea someone
can come up with yet they are so lazy they can't be on top for 2 minutes which
bores fast.
And there are those who... you guessed it... Fuck your
brains out.
I think you see the pattern here. Don't be the first
ones.
You see, it doesn't matter how you behave out there in
public, you can be antisocial to everyone else for all men care, but you should
never be frigid or asexual or boring or timid, or conservative, or lazy in bed.
Sex can be a great asset in your arsenal.
Be willing to talk about anything sex-related. Make
sex become a topic as trivial as brushing teeth.
Some people love it, others find it disgusting and
there are those in the middle who are curious but don't have the courage to try
it out. All new fantasies are the same.
I wouldn't say anal sex is a generally needed thing
every girl has to learn because for some guys, just asking him to do it can
make him think you are an impure women while others have no problem with it and
would prefer not to have the hassle of deflowering you.
As I said earlier, in order to avoid making the
mistake of revealing your love for anal sex or for anything not considered
normal to the uninitiated man, you should go slow, doing things as if you are
learning from him just as we learned in the SEX.
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