HOW TO KEEP THE SEXUAL ATTRACTION AND HEAT
You should never get next to your man, touch him at
that place and he doesn't wake up. Waking up should always be a must. As a
matter of fact use erection to know how much he likes you. If he's young and
you are not doing it for him anymore then RED FLAGS, please do something to get
that erection he used to get just by touching you in the hand. There are
several ways to achieve this and I know women tend to read about them online
but let me make a list of the ones that I've work.
Striptease can be a savior. The right song and the
right lingerie at the right time. No man can resist.
Start wearing a lingerie with no panties out in public
with him, say, in a restaurant or any other place. If he knows all that time
how you are underneath then it's a homerun. It's even better when you take out
in public and hand it to him. Don't be shy, he's your man. You are not
cheating, you are saving your marriage. No one will do it for you.
You don't need
to start doing yoga or going to the gym here but you need to get fast in the
movements and more aggressive. Pick a day and fuck his brains out, not
literally. Create a persona, say, Ashley Hornet, obviously a prostitute, and
let her guide you into pleasing your man. You don't have to be yourself, it's
easier to do crazy staff when you think you are possessed.
Try out Tantric Sex. I could say try out the Kamasutra positions but 70 percent of those positions are not worth doing. You
don't need them. But, I have seen the act of a couple learning how to perfect
Tantric Sex to its greatness to be a very potent source of pleasure. Give it a
try.
Tick off yours and his sexual fantasies. This will
bring some strong bonding. I don't suggest fantasies that need a third person
here since your relationship is cold and your men isn't losing interest in
women, he's losing interest in you, he'd get in love with this other girl or
even you could fall for that guy.
It's a scientific fact that men can't have
sex with the same woman multiple times in a row, they need to recover and then
get back at it, some men are ready once they're done while others need some 10,
15, 20 or even one hour to get back at it (age usually being the factor but
also the time one has had having sex), but men can have 50 different women in a
row without ever stopping without a hassle.
We were polygamous then and our
biology hasn't changed. The rules of society however, have, by making
monogamous relationship the norm. It might sound counterintuitive but it's
easier to have 50 wives than to have 1. Please respect our efforts. I have
friends who occasionally hire prostitutes in order to be able to perform at
home.
At first I was against it but they said their wives had agreed and it
worked. Each marriage is different and the best way to make it work is to avoid
all taboos, talk and get to the most viable solution.
As I said, you'll probably find a thousand different
ways to get your mojo back but these are the ones I've seen work.
I LOVE SEX WAY MORE THAN HE DOES! HOW TO DEAL
WITH THAT
Unbalance between couples is very common, usually it
is a periodic thing. One is always stressed, the other is reading erotic
novels, one is tired and the other was waiting all day for that hard bang, one
is too comfy and the other had a very aphrodisiac day. Things happen. We all
understand.
It's a fact that some people love sex way more than
just the normal without of course being either satyriatics or nynphomaniacs.
Test yourself. You a nymphomaniac if you are:
1. Compulsively engaging
in multiple extramarital affairs that have almost nothing to do with intimacy.
2. Masturbating
excessively and/or obsessively.
3. Making a habit
of having anonymous sexual partners.
4. Urging for
prostitution, either soliciting sex from prostitutes or becoming a prostitute
or escort.
5. Engaging in
sexual behaviors that interfere with other obligations like work, family life,
and school.
6. Getting
irritable, anxious, or angry without frequent sex.
7. Spending an
inordinate amount of time planning (often deviant) sex fantasies.
8. Repeatedly
trying to curb the sexual fantasies, urges, and behaviors without being able
to.
I got those from thestir.cafemom.com, a website that
is sponsored by a sexual research association.
If you are sure you have none of those problems then you
shouldn't worry, you just have a higher sex drive than your man, just like a
lot of women who complain that their men cannot get satisfied easily. You must
be saying "lucky them". No, not really. They feel bad just like you
but are in the opposite situation as you. The problem, as I have already said
is that opposites attract each other.
If you were to stay with a man like you, you probably
wouldn't have a relationship, you'd just have sex and sex isn't enough to
sustain a relationship for too long and you'd part ways. Maybe your partner has
just 90% of your sex drive. I know 10% is the worst because he's already heated
you and now he's down. Your partner would stay with a woman like him but he'd
want some hardcore sex once in a while, which his nature doesn't let him
initiate hence needing a woman like you to do that.
If he won’t satisfy you entirely, I suggest you get
acquainted with sex toys and convince your partner to include them into your
sex life.
Say this: "it might be because you've awoken a beast I
didn't know I had in me but my sex drive has increased these days, I want more
of you. I have been thinking of us using sex toys in order for us to get there
together and for you to be able to help me when you cannot. Or even when you
are away from home and I feel lonely!"
THE DILDO SEQUEL (After introducing some sex toys)
If he's a real man, he'll accept to buy you a dildo. Don't judge
him, all men know when they think of the word sex toy is a dildo and a
vibrator, nothing else. With time you can add more and more. Let him get comfy
with the dildo first. It's always good to name the dildo, if his penis has a
name (which it mostly does. You might not know it but men have these jokes when
they're teenagers), call the dildo his penis son. Let's say his penis is
Jordan, the dildo must be Jordan's son. It is can be funny at times and sexy
when preceded by "I am hungry". And it's also a way for him to think
the dildo is an extension of him, not the competition.
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