HOW TO GET OUT OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

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It happens to even the best and smartest of women. You meet a guy, you fall in love, he seems perfectly reasonable, then you get married to him and he starts getting jealous when you go to the market, he becomes so paranoid he constantly inspects your phone, he starts preventing you from meeting friends, then he prohibits all male friends, then he starts beating you and then you start thinking, how didn't I notice this earlier?

That is why I advise never to get married before at least 2 years of dating. Two years is the minimum time to go through all 7 phases of a relationship which you can read in the last Bonus Chapter. One year to date and getting to know each other and the second year to live together in order to emulate a marriage environment. Some things we only realize after we start living under the same roof.

The problem we have is that this person makes us so happy that we don't want anything to destroy that, even when those things are bad. We are naturally optimistic. Then he finally reveals himself and we think: How didn't I notice this earlier? Well, you weren't looking. You didn't want to and that's why they say learn from your mistakes. But I tell you, learn from other people's mistakes. Your life is too short to make all mistakes.

Start looking, find his problems and see those that may be a problem in the future and those he can change. Then start telling him to change and see what happens and remember, all this before marrying him, please.

If you have realized that this man is too abusive, break up or ask for a divorce if you are already married. Don't try to change him because he won't. For your comfort, abusive men tend to change only after the women is gone and they realize how problematic they were. So if you want him to change, you will have to leave him because he can only learn from his mistakes. No man will ever change by words. Learn that today. I am a man and I am telling you. If you don't get out and hope he'll change still with you in his hands then you are not being methodical, you are being emotional.

If however you decide to stay, which most women do after the man sobers up and apologizes in the morning, in a continuous vicious circle, keep making that mistake. But I advise, before he kills you by accident, please go to the police. Women have way more credibility than men even if you go there when your face is not smashed into pieces, which I suggest. You should never be afraid of what people will think. Actually you should, because they will know you are a smart woman.

If you have kids remember that when they watch all this violence at home, their subconscious is recording this and their adult behavior will most likely be either violent (copying the father) or of constant victimization and chronic submission (copying you, the mother). If you won't sacrifice your love for your own well-being, do it for the kids.

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